Yes, if you want to—

  • Maintain privacy
  • Interact with your spouse respectfully
  • Emphasize the needs of your children
  • Avoid court interference
  • Keep control of the divorce process
  • Communicate openly with your spouse
  • Use a problem-solving approach
  • Benefit from the expertise of specialists in the communications, financial, and parenting areas
  • Identify and address interests and concerns of you, your spouse, and children and create a solution that focuses on these
  • Progress with your life in a positive way